Reflection Hour #2
We're really falling behind in community service hours (at least I am)! We talked about health fairs, blood pressure screeing and blood glucose checks. We also talked about rape, rapists, and what rapists look for in a potential victim.
For one thing, I didn't know that rapists look for women with long hair and rarely attacked women with short hair! It makes sense, as it is easier to grab a woman's hair and catch her off-guard, especially in the back where it's harder for her to fight off her attacker.
Speaking of being caught off-guard, the tip I was most surprised about was encouraging women to intitate conversation to their would-be attacker. I understand the rationale: rapists aren't expecting women to confront them first with a benign conversation starter, such as "What time is it?" These are individuals who plan their crime ahead of time, making every detail, including time, place, and victim, under their control.
Another surprise is that one of the top 3 locations where rapists violate their victims is in the public restroom! Using the restroom is such a private and vulnerable experience, but we often don't think about this when we use public restrooms. Sometimes, we're even fooled by the false security of a bathroom stall lock! From then on, I make sure to use the bathroom with a friend or wait to use the bathroom at home.
These tips were eye-opening for me, as well as everyone else in class. It's disturbing to hear how methodical rapists are in committing these crimes.

